isn't forgiving someone so much better than holding a grudge? i'm so glad that you weren't affected in a bad way, unfortunately most of my sibilings were, my sister got into drugs when she was about 14 and she didnt graduate high school, shes 20 now, and my older brother was pretty much lost since he was born..... same goes for my little brother, the child of the abusive guy, he felt so bad all of his life because it was HIs father.. now he's doing well and i'm really happy that our family has actually gotten a life. its been about 5 years without the madness of abuse and its been a great five years even though its not been perfect....
you're awesome
|