I love flirting but I have no idea if I'm any good at it. I don't do it with everyone. It's like finding something funny, you just do or you don't. It has to come naturally.
Shyness often results in people concentrating most of their attention on themselves, leaving less to observe and interact with the other person. It's an unintentional self obsession.
By trying to impress, you are more likely to be self conscious. That will direct your attention the wrong way. Forget about impressing people and concentrate on them and enjoying their company instead. Flirting is a form of flattery, a way of showing appreciation. It's also fun. People who do it usually do so because they enjoy it, rather than to achieve anything or create an impression.
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