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twinkle · 07-13-2005, 03:27 PM

After long thinking and a thorough analysis of my "rich" love life, I've come to the conclusion that no relationship ever is easy or smooth. Not if both partners trully are honest and open with eachother.

Given his outrageous behaviour, I believe your reaction is quite understandable, you feel like punishing him. the thing is... isn't it only anger, that feeling of trying to be even with him for hurting you?

Either way, if you keep on rejecting him, he will give up.

The thing is... it's really wonderful that the made this step towards you. It may seem like a little thing, but so many men are UNABLE to do it, whatever it takes. So give him at least that.

This isn't him trying to buy you... so I guess you can be at least happy at the this thought.

Whatever you choose, Heather, you know what's best. I'm right by your side, just like Duke.

07-13-2005, 03:27 PM	#5 (permalink)
twinkle Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,255	A After long thinking and a thorough analysis of my "rich" love life, I've come to the conclusion that no relationship ever is easy or smooth. Not if both partners trully are honest and open with eachother. Given his outrageous behaviour, I believe your reaction is quite understandable, you feel like punishing him. the thing is... isn't it only anger, that feeling of trying to be even with him for hurting you? Either way, if you keep on rejecting him, he will give up. The thing is... it's really wonderful that the made this step towards you. It may seem like a little thing, but so many men are UNABLE to do it, whatever it takes. So give him at least that. This isn't him trying to buy you... so I guess you can be at least happy at the this thought. Whatever you choose, Heather, you know what's best. I'm right by your side, just like Duke.