Flirting is actually supposed to be subtle and should be an extension of who you normally are. I know that I've been nailed on the whole "were you flirting with her?" question and I had to think about what I said to realize that I was. It's also much more fun to be a bit less direct and just toss in compliments or nice things while you talk to a gal your interested in. It also seems to keep the conversation going and soon enough, she's tossing the niceties back in your direction.
It's actually my favorite part of the whole dating scene. Now I'm content to just flirt a bit and then go home and be done with it.
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