I think the controversy will continue...much for the reasons that Star pointed out....it's a religious call. If someone follows a Bible....they can't very well throw out the baby with the bath water. They have to believe what it says...is what it means.
From personal experience, I can truly say that it's been a subject which I've kicked around for several years. I can see both sides....but can't give myself to the understanding that THAT many people are genetically pre-disposed to being gay and the whole 'bi' thing nauseates me. I've tried with all that is within me...and I can't consolidate it in my heart.
Then again, I knew a lesbian couple as neighbors once...and they were WONDERFUL people. They did the invetro thing....had a baby...and as far as I can tell...that child is as loved and secure as any heterosexual home...if not more so.
So...dumping the judgement call....maybe for a child...which is what this thread is about....whether they have a Daddy/Daddy, Mommy/Mommy, Daddy/ Mommy or only one parent....as long as they are totally loved and taken care of......maybe that's all that counts.
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