Have you ever taken some time to question yourself that if she treated you so badly....why are you still interested? Perhaps, due to your crush and long term interest in her.....she did and said things just to give you a hint that she wasn't interested in the same capacity that you were.
I don't think there is anything harder to accept than the fact that the person you most care about....doesn't share the same feelings back. I've went through it and so have most of the other people in here. It's painful and it takes awhile to get beyond it.
The good part is....other than hanging out with joint friends....you really didn't have a totally intimate relationship. It'll make it easier to move on if you quit focusing on what may have been. I had to post about a situtation for about 6 months...and then I began reading my own posts thinking....GAWD what am I doing? LOL! After I quit focusing on the situation....I began to move beyond it.
Have you dated anyone else since that time?
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