I don't think someone not being interested in you as far as a love connection is any indication that they are a mean person. Two people not being right for each other doesn't mean there is anything wrong with either one of them....they just aren't right for each other.
After a couple of years, you may still have an interest in what direction her life takes, but I don't know if you should feel overly protective. For you to continue staying focused on someone who doesn't share your same feelings....is only keeping you from finding someone who may return your love. In short....it becomes a waste of time.
It's hard to let go....but if you don't....then you can never move on. You can post on here, on other forums, find new interests, make new friends....whatever it takes to slowly get your mind thinking in another direction.
Have you had any contact with her at all?
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