Wow, you've certainly said a mouthful there my friend, obviously you've given this a lot of thought. The fact that you've done so may mean that you have found your life partner.
Most of my relationships have started off physical and ended in a mess. The instant gratification obviously wore off over time and that's when things fell apart. I now know a great gal who I have not been physical yet which has given me a chance to get to know her. This has been a completely new experience for me and I must say that it's great. The importance of the physical and the pressures associated with it are completely gone. I think of her as my most intimate of friends and love her very much as a result.
She also accepts me for my many flaws and doesn't expect me to be anything but who I am. The best part of that is I'm still not sure who I am or who I'm becoming but she continues to care about me without prejudice.
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