It's clear that he isn't ready to commit to the next level of the relationship yet (moving in). It's better if they don't move in right now if he isn't ready or it would be disasterous. Moving in together is very serious and shouldn't be decided lightly.
There are different levels of commitment. There are more commitments as the relationship grows and things go to newer levels.
You can't really define commitment that easy because of the levels of a relationship. One might be ready to take it to the next level but the other isn't so this is where patience is important. I think your friend needs to be a little more patient for a little while longer until he is ready to commit to a live-in relationship or move on. That decision can only be left up to her.
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