To me, commitment is when you are there for each other through the good and bad times, that no matter what happens the other person will still be there.
If I was in the same situation as her with regards to how I am in life right now, I would have an honest talk with him, tell him I was ready for a commitment, if he wasn't, I wouldn't wait around...sometimes these guys are never ready if they have all the benefits if you know what I mean...especially if they've been together for years...
But that's just my opinion....
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