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twinkle · 06-26-2005, 03:28 PM

What's commitment to you? How do you define commitment? Are there limits to commitment?

I'm asking this because of a new collegue of mine. She's a real sweety and she's been with her bf for quite some time (years, I presume). She says that they're doing fine together but that he does not want to move in with her.

Is he commited to her? To the relationship with her or not? Is he taking her seriously?

I told her that given my experience, it's the best thing that could have happened to her - Moving in is too much of a fuss, it creates a very vicious routine very difficult to break, if the relationship turns sour.

However, she seems kinda hurt an takes his refusal as a rejection... I haven't been there, really, so I can't tell. What do you think?

What's your definition of commitment?

06-26-2005, 03:28 PM	#1 (permalink)
twinkle Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,255	Commitment What's commitment to you? How do you define commitment? Are there limits to commitment? I'm asking this because of a new collegue of mine. She's a real sweety and she's been with her bf for quite some time (years, I presume). She says that they're doing fine together but that he does not want to move in with her. Is he commited to her? To the relationship with her or not? Is he taking her seriously? I told her that given my experience, it's the best thing that could have happened to her - Moving in is too much of a fuss, it creates a very vicious routine very difficult to break, if the relationship turns sour. However, she seems kinda hurt an takes his refusal as a rejection... I haven't been there, really, so I can't tell. What do you think? What's your definition of commitment?