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Originally Posted by twinkle
I know, one person can really be inlove and have this incredible relationship and have high hopes and all... marriage is much more than that. IT's actually letting inside your life this person, officially, socially, emotionally, it implies sharing everything from a house, to debt, to children, to vows.
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A relationship can also be like a marriage too though. I've lived with 4 men (including my husband) sharing everything like we were married and I can tell you that I was just as devestated after breaking up with them as I would be if I got a divorce.
I've had many relationships and now i'm married. I felt the heartbereak of failing in a relationship. It would feel the same if i failed at this marriage. Time heals everything and there comes a point where you just move on and it's over and done with whether it's a divorce or a relationship break up. they're both relationships so it's the same thing. kids or no kids. JMHO.