You know, DA, you've sometimes talked about feeling different and maybe that's why you have associated something external (appearance) with bad experiences. It's a common reaction.
A really good way of overcoming that feeling is to concentrate on what you have in common with people. In this case you had loads in common with those girls, including race. That's a good thing. The fact it didn't work out was probably just that it wasn't meant to be. They weren't right for you despite their race, rather than because of it. Duke's right, why limit your options?
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