It is! I can't believe how quickly life was great again, really from the moment I left the old house. I think it's because I gave so much, there was nothing left I could have done for the relationship or for him. That means there's no baggage, no regrets or guilt - just wall to wall happiness
. I'm enjoying the kids so much more too, they're blossoming. I'm not sure if it's being out of that dreadful atmosphere or that they are doing better because I am.
Rentals here are usually grim but I got very lucky and was offered a really beautiful house. That's helped the kids settle. It will be hard to leave it when the lease is up but it's a great start for us, that's what matters.
Star I saw your thread about your daughter. Not had time to post yet but I've been thinking of you. Hope you're OK.