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Originally Posted by Stone
I am going to be honest with Noah about his father when he is older and drugs plays alot into what he has become.
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be very careful about being so honest with him about his father. I thought I was doing the right thing with Krystal when it came to answering questions and being honest about her biological father too but all it did was cause me more grief then I could've ever imagined.
She had her bio father up so high on that pedestal that I had to knock him down a few notches and tell her some truths about him. His criminal acts, drugs, etc.. it all came back to bite me in the arse later.
Even htough we think our child's father is a low life piece of crap, the child still thinks of that same person as one of the most important people in their life and they do idolize them. The kid is part of that person so by being too honest could be viewed as making the kid think that they're just like that guy. It doesn't make them feel good inside. I know this from my experience with Krystal. I think that's where I went wrong with her. I was too honest where her bio dad was concerned.
just be very very careful Stone.