Good God, Star, you're scaring me! I hope your girl does appreciate the mom she's got!
As for your hubby, I bet he's lost without you. I know that that's where mom hit first. Imagine they live in the same place for years and he still doesn't know where his stockings are
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Picture this: for the last 4 years, dad quit his job. he's got a pharmacy he hardly ever takes care of. Anyway, mom is the one making the money in that house. She has a house keeper that comes there a couple of times a week, even if we're away and I must say this is the best thing ever for her.
Take good care of yourself, Star, obviously everybody needs you!