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Originally Posted by Rock
For example if girls dress like hookers where did they get the money to buy the clothes? Do these girls get money from their parents? If the parents do not approve of the clothing the girls wear then why do they continue to give the girls money?
In Vautrin's example who owns the TV? Whose house is the TV in? It is not the kid's TV or the kid's house. The parents own everything so why do they not control if the TV is watched and what is watched when it is on?
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my oldest daughter dresses herself in skimpy clothes. she has done this from the time she was 13. I didn't buy her those clothes as a matter of fact, i would rip them up and throw them out. Fact is, kids will do what they want if they have no fear of authority no matter what the parents say.
Most parents set rules, teach their kids good morals and values but some of those kids just rebel and go travel the road that they were taught not to go on. In my case, this is what happened. We tried all resources available to get our daughter back on the right track without success. I am a good mother and her dad is a very good father as well. I know this because we have another daughter who lives what we've taught her and has the upmost respect for anyone. Sometimes, it just happens and it is out of our control.
This is where society comes in. The laws do not give us parents the power. The law gives the kids the power so they learn quickly that they can get away with their nasty behaviors and leave us parents sitting there wondering what the heck happened to our good child.
My daughter was the kind of kid that would never leave my side. I couldn't even leave her with a family member for a few hours, she'd cry for me the whole time. We never left our kids with babysitters, we did everything with them. I stayed home with my kids from the time they were born and we raised them out in the country away from all the bad things in the city. My kids grew up with countless daily hugs, kisses and i love you's. they're not afraid to show affection. Society got a hold of my beautiful first born little girl and never let her go. There isn't anything I can do to help her now except just sit here and wait for her to grow out of it (that's what i've been told) and come back to us.
Yesterday, on the news, they were showing a picture of a 19 year old boy that's gone missing. I felt really angry about that because when my 13 year old daughter went missing and I tried to have her picture in the news, they wouldn't do it. They pick and choose who's kid is more important. The wealthy get more attention and more help available to them then the average family does. It's really sad and sick.
I always say that having kids is like a game of russian roulette. You just don't know how your child will turn out when they start to venture out in the world. It happens to the best of families as does the worst of families. That doesn't seem to make any difference these days. that tells me there's deffinately something wrong with the system and society for this to be happening to good kids that are brought up in good homes with good loving parents. makes no sense to me.