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Originally Posted by Rock
I don't think it really is up to me.
She's made the decision to have it, and has asked for help paying for it. I guess that if I agreed to help pay, then I'm an accessory, but if I did not agree then I think she'd do it anyway.
This is not like we have dated for a year or two and were thinking about getting married anyway. We hardly know each other.
I think I should call her to find out how things went this week?
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oh but rock, you do have a say in this. you have as much say in this as angela does. You can contest the abortion.
My daughter got pregnant when she was 15. i now have a beautiful grand-daughter. she also wanted an abortion and i forbade it. then we were planning on giving the baby up for adoption and I ended up not having the heart to do that either. so, now, i'm raising my little grand-daughter and I don't regret the decision at all.
The ultimate decision would be yours and angela's. If you decided against the abortion, then you might have to raise the baby or give the baby up for adoption. there are plenty of families out there who would welcome the baby with open arms and give this baby a very good home.
Bottom line is that you have several choices and none of these should be taken lightly. You both need to sit down and talk about these choices and take the time to make the right decision that neither one of you will live to regret. This is a life at the end of your choice. It's shouldn't be taken lightly. JMHO.