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Originally Posted by twinkle
That's why it hardly ever works. As an exemple, men can say a hundred times "oh, it's just sex", it's never just about sex.
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I would never say "it is just sex." But I would never cheat. Even with all the problems I suffer from, that is something I am certain of. I know a few women with exactly the same attitude, so the attitude is not restricted to one sex.
And remember it is an excuse, how lame it may be. There does not exist "(it's) just sex." You don't have "just sex" with your bf/ gf /husband / wife.
You don't get accidentaly involved in a longstanding affair. An affair is about the projected shortcomings of the betrayed partner. But how big the role is of the betraying partner in creating these shortcomings, that is the question, and often one the betraying partner is unwilling to answer in the face of either partner.