I think it varies enormously, Merika. Sometimes they think they can get away with it, sometimes there's a problem in the marriage and that's their way of dealing with it, sometimes it's more about them than about their marriage.
There's different types of affairs. Some are just sexual, others are emotional too. The feelings for the spouse may vary depending on the type.
Whatever the circumstances, I suspect that the person is not emotionally in tune with their spouse when infidelity occurs.
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