Paul,
There are two types of people involved in love. There are the people who want love for themselves and the people who love the other person more than themselves.
The first kind is never really happy because no one can ever give them enough. They flit from relationship to relationship, don't know who to hang onto or who to let go. They spend their whole life wanting their cake and eating it to. They make everyone in their path miserable because they can't commit beyond their own needs and feelings. They stay confused.
The second kind loves someone more than they love themselves. They DO seem to get hurt more often, but they are rarely confused about their feelings. When this type of person meets someone just like them, instead of the out of the first group, they find the true magic in love....which is the joy of giving to someone else.
You are a second group kinda guy Paul. Keep looking until you meet someone like you....who is beyond crushes and silly emotional stuff. Find someone who treats love seriously.....not as an emotional hobby.
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