Mother's Day
Alright, so I'm trying to be the bigger person in the situation, and Beanie's mom is coming to our house (with out her jerk boyfriend) to stay this coming weekend, and have a mother's day dinner.
Bean says she wants to talk about what happened this past November, but I'm not sure I want to talk about it. I'd really rather just move on with life, and forgive and forget.
I know I'll only get mad again if she brings it up, because nothing she says will really make a difference to me- I don't exactly mean it the way it sounds, it's just that any person who makes a mistake will look to justify it in some way so that they don't come out looking as awful.
I just don't want to have to tell her that, "I understand," or whatever nonsense I could say to make her feel less guilty for being nasty. Maybe I'm being selfish, I don't know.
Beanie, in a fit of irrationality, also invited my mom to go to the same dinner. The big problem is that MY mom knows what his mom did, because I told her. I just hope that my mom is mature enough to just enjoy her dinner, which, I think she will be.
We've been together nearly 2 years, and our parents (who are both single moms) have never met. We were just afraid they'd be too different to enjoy eachother's company.
My mom (as you know) is an ultra conservative school teacher.
His mom is an old, burnt out hippie.
Whoo doggy! Wish me luck on this coming weekend. I know I'll need it.
I'll keep you posted!
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