I think it's a good thing you're doing by concentrating on you being pregnant right now. It should be that way. The less stress that little baby feels then better.
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I am having a hard time accepting some very important facts, the fact that I will never beable to love again. Yes I am young I know but I just can't pull my children into another relationship, I won't let any man live with us EVER!! and that hurts me but I must do it for them. All I ever really wanted was a faimly and a husband who loves us and accepting the fact that it's not going to happen for a VERY VERY long time is painful & upsetting.
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Stone, you will find happiness one day with a man that will love and respect you. I say the same thing. if anything ever happened that i wasn't with gerry anymore, i'd live alone with my kids forever but i am much older then you are. you're still very young. You can date, nothing wrong with that. Dating doesn't mean that you're bringing men into your home. If the kids don't see them, then it doesn't hurt them right? I would never introduce my kids to a man unless I knew that we were in love and going to have a future together. That's just common sence I think.
I think you're on the right track and in no time, you'll be happy about yourself and your life again.