[Star]

I'm glad that you and she talked to clear the air about these feelings. now maybe you can be friends without any interference.

I had a couple of guy friends who felt romantic feelings for me that I didn't for them when i was in my early 20's. We still hung out together and I still dated other guys. they had no choice but to deal with it and move on and they did. I just liked them as friends, I couldn't like them anymore then that. it just wasn't there. This is probably the same with the girl you like. just be her friend. she probably loves to hang out with you as a friend. I know i did with those couple of guy frineds that i had. I was sorry that we drifted apart and i did miss them as friends of mine but they both met very nice girls and got married and had families as I did so we couldn't be friends and hang out anymore. that's what happens.

gee. haven't thought about them in years. makes me wonder how they're doing.