I think sitting down and talking about these issues is an awesome start. Birth control doesn't always mean no pregnancies (I have a 13 year old daughter who is the product of the pill).
It sounds to me like he really does love you and perhaps just wants to abstain from sex until marriage. It's only a few month away so why not? Just think of how great your wedding night will be! :wink:
The majority of catholics today aren't old school. they use birth control, they have sex like everybody else does. I don't think it will be an issue after you're married to him. I just think he wants to "cleanse" himself before taking his vows with you.
