da I'm going to come across as an ass here so I'll apologize in advance. I don't want to offend, badger or belittle but I know my message will likely come across a bit harsh. Sorry if I do so.
We've got literally hundreds of posts here about how you can't seem to hook up with a gal. You touch on confidence issues, communication problems, lack of self-esteem, etc. I thought the whole time this is what we've been dealing with and I think most of us have been trying to help you with it, and I thought our advice on the matter was pretty good. You have to remember we've all been there at one time or another (everyone has a first time).
Just recently, within the past day or so, you've thrown in this cocky, arrogant side of you stating your too picky and you're looking for 00ber gal. Youââ¬â¢re also citing how haut you are and should have the ability to land whatever you troll for. If you don't read it that way then I apologize, I certainly did. I have to say that these latest posts make you sound much less like the quirky, confused, slightly self-conscious guy I've gotten to know. Now you come across as an arrogant prick with a chip on his shoulder (again sorry for the bluntness).
I really hope I'm wrong here but if I'm not I'd suggest you dump the cockiness and do it immediately. I know your confidence is on an upswing and I couldn't be happier for you but if it's making you cocky then it's not confidence your gaining, it's indifference.
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