In my personal life I am quite forgiving, too forgiving if you like. Of course I know I am being taken advantage of, once in a while. By my friends, by strangers.
However, I never forget. Take things too far with me, and that is the end of our relationship / friendship. Reconcilliation will not work. Because it would not be something accidental that happened, but it would point to a character flaw; and I have no intention to be an intellectual babysitter for the person who can't treat me properly in the first place.
|