If we look at all the statistics no form of dating makes sense. No relationship makes sense, statistically speaking, and if things keep developing as they are marriage does not make much sense anymore in the near future.
If you have the insight, you sense when someone is real, and when someone is not, solely based on words. On another forum, we had the combination of 'no spirituality' with 'good introspection.' Alarmbells anyone?
The same is true, with real-world dating. If you can't "read" a person properly chances are you end up with someone bad.
In the real world dating you tend to pay less attention to his/her words, but more attention to the body language. But if you read "confidence", from one's body language, but don't read his words, you might end up with an arrogant and confident piece of garbage.
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