If I meet a guy at work, or wherever, and one of the first things he asks me is if I want to go out......from a females point of view....it can FEEL annoying. Sometimes it's just nice to interact with the situation arises, a friendship develops and then you end up hanging out due to the normal course of things.
I don't like to be placed in a position of having to 'date' someone right off the bat. A guy doesn't ask a girl out because he wants a buddy. He asks her out because he hopes he will get lucky. Females KNOW that...that's why they are hesitant to say yes.
I used to get asked out so much at work....until I was afraid to even smile at a guy. It was a major pain. The guys I've stayed friends with..are the ones who didn't bug me for a date after the first 'Hello'.
That's just my opinion.
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