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It really depends on what the person did to me and if it's really that bad, i don't know that i would call that a grudge; more so a cut off my life type thing instead.

Like that friend that really peeved me off a few months ago. I'm not holding a grudge, I'm just not her friend anymore and I will never be her friend again. What she did was unforgivable and it's somethig that friends don't do to eachother so, she's lost me as a friend. Is that a grudge? hmmm..

With normal things, little things, i usually don't even get all that upset so I hold no grudge. I don't let little things bother me when it comes to people that are close to me.

I did however hold a grudge against my best friend for 10 years and she did to me as well. we were both wasted at the time of the incident and it got really bad. we ended up in a physical fight and i beat her up pretty bad. I did feel really bad about that for years but also held a grudge because from what i remember, she had started the whole thing. We got in touch again after 10 years, talked and forgave eachother and continued on being friends again. It was like we never stopped! only thing is that we missed eachother's weddings, childbirths, the important things that we always planned on sharing. That was a really silly grudge to hold. we were young and retarded, and drunk out of our faces.