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Duke · 02-27-2005, 05:31 PM

I wouldn't be so sure about using drunk as an excuse. You may get away with it once or twice but eventually she'll come to think of you as a messy drunk.

If I may be so bold da, you seem to do a lot of little, stupid things that seem to stack the odds against you. Why don't you just pull it together a little bit and try dumping the excuses? I'm not saying this because of my observations of you, I'm only saying this because you've posted similarily several times in different parts of this board.

I'm not sure if this applies to you because it's something I do to sabotage intimacy. Why do I do this, well, I guess I just want to see if I can get the level of trust/feeling back that I had prior to the act? Most often I'll spend a lot of time on my partner making her feel very good before the act of sex takes place. I try and bring her to a place where it's only us in an attempt to bring her the big "O". It's important to me because I derive all of my pleasure from my partners pleasure (I'm weird that way I guess). There have been a few times where I've gotten my partner very close to bliss and as I kiss and lick my way up her body I take a detour and dive into her armpits. This breaks the mood instantly and makes getting her back to where she was a real challenge.

I know it's a stupid story and may not pertain to this topic at all but there is one element in there that I think is similar to what you do in some ways da. I believe you do stupid things sometimes that hamstring yourself and likely ruin your chances of being successful with a gal. You come on way too strong, way too fast, you share feelings with gals who likely never felt anything more than friendship with you and you fall in love instantly if a girl looks at you more than once for more than a second. If you would just calm down a bit and stop forcing it to happen, you may find that it will happen and likely a lot sooner than where you are now.

I know for a fact that my stupid act of breaking intimacy will make our encounter last several hours instead of the quick release we would have had had I been able to resist the pit. BTW, womens BO stick doesn't really taste that good for anyone who's curious.

02-27-2005, 05:31 PM	#4 (permalink)
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: The back of my mind. Posts: 19,947	I wouldn't be so sure about using drunk as an excuse. You may get away with it once or twice but eventually she'll come to think of you as a messy drunk. If I may be so bold da, you seem to do a lot of little, stupid things that seem to stack the odds against you. Why don't you just pull it together a little bit and try dumping the excuses? I'm not saying this because of my observations of you, I'm only saying this because you've posted similarily several times in different parts of this board. I'm not sure if this applies to you because it's something I do to sabotage intimacy. Why do I do this, well, I guess I just want to see if I can get the level of trust/feeling back that I had prior to the act? Most often I'll spend a lot of time on my partner making her feel very good before the act of sex takes place. I try and bring her to a place where it's only us in an attempt to bring her the big "O". It's important to me because I derive all of my pleasure from my partners pleasure (I'm weird that way I guess). There have been a few times where I've gotten my partner very close to bliss and as I kiss and lick my way up her body I take a detour and dive into her armpits. This breaks the mood instantly and makes getting her back to where she was a real challenge. I know it's a stupid story and may not pertain to this topic at all but there is one element in there that I think is similar to what you do in some ways da. I believe you do stupid things sometimes that hamstring yourself and likely ruin your chances of being successful with a gal. You come on way too strong, way too fast, you share feelings with gals who likely never felt anything more than friendship with you and you fall in love instantly if a girl looks at you more than once for more than a second. If you would just calm down a bit and stop forcing it to happen, you may find that it will happen and likely a lot sooner than where you are now. I know for a fact that my stupid act of breaking intimacy will make our encounter last several hours instead of the quick release we would have had had I been able to resist the pit. BTW, womens BO stick doesn't really taste that good for anyone who's curious. __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you. My Daughter Rules!