I have found that whatever bugs you about a person early on....only gets worse in future years. People don't change who they inherently are on the inside. Finding excuses to try to make it work....usually prove fruitless.
Couples sometimes ignore all the red flags due to any number of reasons. Maybe you are just used to being together or you have joint friends or you just don't know at what point to walk away. So..they marry....have kids....and the same problems are still there.
Him working or not working, flirting or not flirting are only symptoms of the problem. The truth is....he makes you unhappy more than he makes you happy. Why stick around and put yourself through it when there are so many fish in the sea?
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