That's interesting Duke, seen as I haven't posted yet. Or maybe you are psychic?
I'm glad the relationship is improving again, heather. You need the support right now.
I know what Samson means. Greg has made you suffer for his lack of committment to this pregnancy, he really ought to have got over it when you decided you were keeping the baby and made it right for you then. I know Noah is the centre of your life and that he loves Greg but that's not a strong enough basis for the relationship with you. You deserve more.
On the other hand you've occasionally said things in the past that have made me think you're not sure enough of him yet to accept a greater level of committment. He may well know this. It's understandable, he's let you down and really needs to prove he can be a good father to his child before you may be able to trust him again. Things may well settle in time, heather. I'm not sure greg is the man for you long term but he's been a major force in your life and the ties that bind you are stronger than ever right now, despite the difficulties. Just make sure you ask yourself, is your life better or worse with him in it?
There's nothing wrong with being grateful for these signs of committment but keep your eye on what you want for your life and your family longer term. Expect more, you'll never get it if you don't.