I guess that I'm curious that if I had known how my inadequacies would affect my partners that I may not have hurt so many, maybe even saved a relationship (I've blown my share of good ones).
I also believe that a better understanding of the opposite sex or, at least, your partner would save and/or stop more marriages from either breaking up or happening in the first place. I'm a real believer in knowledge is power and know for a fact that I had no idea what was going on in my first dozen or so relationships.
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