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Maybe my husband learned as well through trial and error, I don't know. I didn't know him long before we got together. Maybe that's all it is is learning through ones mistakes.

We've all hurt people in our lives in the past. I know I did. I broke many hearts that didn't deserve it and learned something through that. It's really good that you know you've learned from these mistakes duke. In making those mistakes, you've also taught the girls something as well at the same time. Life is a huge learning experience from beginning to the end.

Maybe poeple are getting married too soon; before they've made these kinds of mistakes and learned from them. I don't know.

I just feel really lucky that I am in a good marriage. We do have our rough edges like everyone else does but we handle it in a way that works for us. I just wish that everyone could be happy too.

I really do believe that one has to be happy with themselves and love themselves before they can be happy or love another. Those things reflect on a relationship and helps to make it grow. The rest all falls into place.