that and too many people marrying the wrong people. not getting to really know the person before marrying them. not taking vows seriously, there are several reasons why people divorce. everyone has their own story.
I know that hubby does try to be sentitive with my emotions. If I'm crying he will hold me and tell me it will al work out, if I'm sad, he'll console me... that's all the understanding that I need. Men do have a nice way to show that they love their women (most men do anyways) and vise versa.
It would be nice if divorce went down statistacally but unfortunately there are people that will make mistakes in choosing their partners for life. Some are more excited about having their big day where all the attention is on them instead of really thinking "if he/she is really the right one to be marrying" others will settle out of loneliness.
I think it's more about understanding ourselves better then understanding the other gender. what do you think?
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