Maybe you're right twinkle, but it seems to me that this situation is not straightforward and that there may be room for confusion and misintepretation.
The problem with testing someone is that they don't know the rules, so wheher they pass or fail it may not mean what you think it does. Do try and talk to him, it's the only way. Share the way you are feeling. Maybe he should know without you having to say it, but no-ones perfect. Give him the chance to do something about it. There's no point feeling guilty about having the feelings in the first place either, it's understandable, they are real.
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