I agree with what you're saying hornet, but have little to no faith in abstinence programs. Most of us have been, or will be, overwhelmed at one time or another by feelings for their partner. So much so that the immediate reaction is much more physical than logical which is what leads to the statistics we see with unplanned parenting, etc.
The other problem I have with programs like this is they generalize the problem and probable solutions. The only thing that works is communication and understanding at both ends of the spectrum. That means a teacher and a student tackling the issues head on. How likely is that to happen in todayââ¬â¢s society?
One last thought. I'd be curious to see a real life survey that documents how many of the people running these programs have adhered to these principles throughout their own lives. It's one thing to push an ideal; it's another entirely if the very ideal your pushing is one you've disobeyed.
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