As faye knows i'm in the same mind frame...
My ex and i were very passionate tried alot of things and what not.... But that kind of passion comes with other stuff outside the bedroom that takes definate tolls on the relationship... Granted I think the only reason he was that passionate for me was the drugs... If Mike hadn't come along i'ld probably still be in that relationship supporting the both of us and his drug habits... Mike at the time was a welcome change someone who at the time i thought was romantic and want nothing more than to make me happy... We live apart he religiously called me many times a day his cell phones were 3xs what they were when i moved to be with him... I'm not all overly physically turned on by him... its the stuff he does for me that turns me on... I know I couldn't have found a better man... He would do anything for me and tells me nightly he can't wait till we are married... But my ex is still in the back of my mind...
So I guess with the wedding coming up i'm going with Stability over Passion
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