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they've tested her for absolutely everything. nothing is wrong with her. it's all her attitude and behaviour, her way of thinking.

Kassandra's starting to show signs of puberty. Her attitude at times really sucks but all I need to do is let her know how she's behaving and how she sounds then she stops. Sometimes kids don't realize how they sound and it helps to mimic them so they know. Kassandra's the normal teen. I can handle that. no problem. been there myself many moons ago. LOL!

I've always told myself that I have to never forget what it was like to be a teenager and I never have forgotten. It does help me a lot where kassandra is concerned. She comes to me with her problems and we talk about them and try to find a solution together. I did the same thing with krystal too but krystal is different.

kassandra is honest about everything. krystal is sneaky, coniving, manipulative, lyer and dishonest. She also has her qualities but they're very hard to focus on these days. Krystal and kassandra are like night and day. totally different. funny how you raise your kids with the same morals and values then one holds what you've taught close to their hearts and protects it and the other doesn't give a crap about any of it. goes to show that you really don't know how your kids will turn out until you get to that point.

Hopefully by the time she's 30, she'll be all grown up, mature and responsible. I can only hope.