Sadly enough, Beanie's mom.
At first, we got along really well. Then, she started to not like me. I'm still not really sure why, but I'm betting that her new boyfriend has something to do with it. They're both very country, and in my opinion somewhat ignorant, and I think they feel threatened by me.
Recently, she accused me of stealing 10 bucks and a pack of ciggs from her. and her pig farmer boyfriend. Her boyfriend had left them out in the open, and when Beanie and I left from visiting that weekend they were gone. Of course...they couldn't have lost them. :P
Anyway, NO, in case you were wondering, I didn't steal them. I was not raised that way, and I make enough money to where I don't need to steal. What I can't pay for, I don't need that badly.
Anyway, she also doesn't like me when Beanie and I have problems. She blames them all on me, when it goes both ways. She thinks I'm too hard on him and that I want too much from him.
My deal is that Beanie's actions directly affect me- for instance, if he spends too much, drinks too much, etc, all of that makes my life harder. I do my best to save money, and I don't like having to pay for things that are his responsibility because he'd rather get drunk.
His mom is one of those women who never had any ambition for herself. Much like Beanie was earlier in our relationship, she spent all of her money on beer and weed. She drifted from abusive man to abusive man, and usually put Beanie's needs second to her own.
At one time, her own sister nearly took Beanie from her when he was one year old due to her neglect.
Anyway, I'm not sure what I'm wanting. Maybe I need some advice on how to make the situation better...but the thing is that I've tried. I've called her and sent her a letter. She blows me off, and it seems like she just enjoys disliking me.
We live too far away for a face to face event. Any suggestions?
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