I know what you mean. Thank you Merika, Faye and DA. I usually am proud of our complementarity, but he as I have our fiss at times. And having both strong characters, being so different involves some sort of clashing, at times. And it's not that easy when I'm tired or when he's irritated.
But then, I think it's not because we're different, but because all relationships are difficult (that's what I tell myself, if I wanted no fuss, I should have stayed alone
).