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I've already forgiven her, it actually hurt me way more that she lied to me then the cheating itself. I've decided to be friends and talk through this and try to work it out.
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So you're asking us if we think you're being a putz?
Of course not. I think how we react to this situation is highly individualized. There is no "right" way to respond.
However, the fact is that while you claim to have forgiven, the context of your message leads me to believe that you really haven't. If this is true, and you're continuously opening the "can of worms" with her about this event from the distant past, then you'll eventually drive her away.