Paul.....I am sooooooooooo sorry....and I know how much you love this girl.
Cheating doesn't always mean that the person who does it doesn't love the person they are cheating on...it can be an indication of a great many other problems. Some of those can be dealt with due to her remorse....and other's can be an indication of even worse problems.
No one can really decide for you as to what the next course of action should be for you. It's a hard call.
Then again, your situation has been all different. The joint agreement of the abstinance of sex until marriage was rooted and grounded on your joint faith. Due to this being a VERY important part of your life.....it's not something that someone who wants to be a part of your life should play with.
It may be an answer you can only find while on your knees Sweetie.......
Again....I'm SO sorry. Life and love suck......but it shouldn't happen to someone as honerable as you. That seems so unfair.
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