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I would NEVER EVER speak or treat anyother person this way and I am doing it with him as I did with Noahs father... it is a pattern after I have become comfortable.
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Greg used to be my best friend and now he isn't I try to remember our friendship.....he is really a good guy, I just don't see him that way anymore.
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Familiarity breeds contempt for us all SH. It isn't you fault, it is our nature. Dr. Phil and other legions of marriage counsellors reiterate the platitude: Marriage requires hard work. I would add that indeed, a successful marriage requires work, MOSTLY because a successful divorce requires MORE work.
I am convinced that long term monagomous relationships for humans is more a social construct than a natural one, and that evolutionary forces within society are working to change the unnatural tendancy to expect marriage to last more than about 7 years.