http://www.a-weddingday.com/checklist.html
http://weddings.about.com/cs/bridesa...estressers.htm
http://www.ldsweddings.com/planning/10_steps.html
Sparklenfade,
Maybe looking over some of these links will give you pointers and help you get through the hurdles. I'm not sure what happened last time.....but maybe the disappointment of it not working out the way you first thought has made you unconscioulsy hesitant to begin again.
I'm sure other people in here will have some great ideas. They are very creative.
Please let us know how it's all going. It would be nice to have a wedding planning log thread for future brides to read as to what they can expect.