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Samson · 01-10-2005, 08:12 AM

September?

So, you're at about 4 months. Sounds like you will deliver the child regardless of paternity.

I though the Greg's level of commitment was going to be tested during your recent trip to Disney? Is his paternity question a result of this trip? Regardless, it seems to be so much water under the bridge SH, ONLY UNLESS he may be concerned at this point about planning his financial obligation: Will he, or will he not be held accountable for supporting your baby?

Is this is a question that can most easily be settled after the child is born? Depends, I suppose, on how well situated you are to handle the immediate costs (hospital, recovery with and without birthing complications, day care, etc.), without his help?

Based on what you've said about this guy, he seems extraordinarily immature, behaving like a guy 20 years younger than his chronological age (AND that's DISCOUNTING any mental impairments he may claim justify his behavior)! I'd plan for the worse, and contact an adoption agency that would deal with costs if he doesn't make his committment to you official before March (you'll need a few months to get all the legal stuff settled before birth).

01-10-2005, 08:12 AM	#13 (permalink)
Samson Banned (Perm) Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 842	September? So, you're at about 4 months. Sounds like you will deliver the child regardless of paternity. I though the Greg's level of commitment was going to be tested during your recent trip to Disney? Is his paternity question a result of this trip? Regardless, it seems to be so much water under the bridge SH, ONLY UNLESS he may be concerned at this point about planning his financial obligation: Will he, or will he not be held accountable for supporting your baby? Is this is a question that can most easily be settled after the child is born? Depends, I suppose, on how well situated you are to handle the immediate costs (hospital, recovery with and without birthing complications, day care, etc.), without his help? Based on what you've said about this guy, he seems extraordinarily immature, behaving like a guy 20 years younger than his chronological age (AND that's DISCOUNTING any mental impairments he may claim justify his behavior)! I'd plan for the worse, and contact an adoption agency that would deal with costs if he doesn't make his committment to you official before March (you'll need a few months to get all the legal stuff settled before birth).