Heather, you need PEACE in your life. Peace. So either you tell him and he starts packing like now, or you just take him, accept the way he is until you have your baby.
It's like a rollercoaster, 'cause you'll always need help and support. Be 100% sure that you are transmitting your baby all your worries and all your anxieties.
So instead of torturing yourself about telling him or not, why don't you start thinking if you want him in your life or not. And than choose. And than make it happen.
If indeed you do want him in your life, then this is what you do. You talk to this smuck(how dare he torture you while you're pregnant, specially since he knows the harm he's doing) and tell him:
"Darling, I really do want you in my life. But this is highly stressful for me. I promise you that the minute I have the baby you shall have the paternity test you desire. Until then, I don't want to hear the sound of it".
In you don't want him in your life, tell him he's got 3 days to finish packing.
Don't postpone it, Heather. Your both kids need stability in their lives. Don't think Noah isn't feeling your agitation.
Good luck,
Twinkle
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