My endings are rarely as neat as that, although I do follow through with my decisions. I see this with close friends too, that they may split up with someone but that the person continues to have a detrimental effect on their life such that they will not form new relationships (or if they do they are affected negatively by the previous one). Eventually, they find a way of reducing the impact of this effect on their life. Often (though not always) contact is neccessary to achieve this, even though it is rarely a positive experience.
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