It's very unfortunate that BOTH parents have to work, but in this day in age there isn't much of a choice in the matter, it is nearly impossible to raise children, and plan for retirement, college, ect on one income.
Samson, I do think your wife should compromise, maby she can get a part time job to save for retirement or your are right you will be eating cat food. :? Please becareful IF you decide to get divorced, she COULD be intitled to 1/2 of your retirement savings already.
